I have had three whole random thoughts over the past few days and am posting them for your consideration and commentary.
1. Regarding the Meraglim (spies) in Parshat Shelach (Numbers 13:33): We were like grasshoppers in our eyes, and so we were in their eyes. The mussar haskel (upshot) is that others percieve us as we percieve ourselves. If we perceive ourselves in a negative light, it's not surprising that others will, too.
2. Also regarding the Meraglim, upon the report of the spies, Bnai Yisrael stayed up all night crying and complaining that it was better to return to Egypt than to go to Eretz Yisrael. This was a 180 degree turn in the wrong direction, for which they were punished by having to wander in the desert for 40 years and having that entire generation die out.
According to the midrash (I think - I'm quoting from memory so I might be wrong), this occurred on the night of the 9th of Av. On the night of each 9th of Av for the following 38 years they had already "served" 2 years), all the Jews of that generation would dig their own graves, lie down in them to sleep, and the next morning, would find about 1/38 had died over night. Therefore, the last year (year 38), all the people going to sleep knew for sure they would not wake up in the morning. Yet, they woke up in the morning. They assumed they had made a mistake in counting days, and repeated this procedure on the night of the 10th, 11th, 12th, 13th, and 14th. On the night of the 15th, they saw the full moon and knew for sure that they had not made an error, and realized they were "off the hook".
This presents us with a number of interesting questions: It seems that the generation of slavery had an entrenched attitude that could only be removed by a complete housecleaning, yet the midrash implies otherwise. Did the remaining members of that generation actually live to go into Eretz Yisrael? Does this imply that no attitude is so entrenched that it cannot be changed? G-d had vowed not to let anyone from that generation except Joshua and Caleb go into Eretz Yisrael - did He then break his vow? How can that be? Is there any numerological significance to the six nights and then the seventh night?
3. Judaism is called a monotheistic religion, yet I disagree with that term. Judaism is actually monodeistic - that is, we believe in one G-d. As far as theology goes, I might say that even Hinduism or other Eastern religions, are monotheistic, since they are all built upon one consistent (to them, at least) ideaology. They are decidedly not monodeistic, since they believe in multiple gods. Judaism, broken up into Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Reconstructionist, et. al., appears to be monodeistic but not necessarily monotheistic. Does any of this make sense?
Overall, 64-million-dollar-question: Can all of this material be related, do you think?
Monday, February 25, 2008
Sunday, February 24, 2008
Educational Theory
I am, as I have mentioned, an amateur educator. An idea occured to me a few weeks ago that I want to air out.
My fiancee is an educator, and a strong believer in Montessori. On the face of it, Montessori appears to be inconsistent with Judaism, especially because Maria Montessori was a Catholic, and thus, many Jews associate Montessori with Christianity. As a believer in learning from all people, I think that attitude is narrow minded.
Montessori is, at its essence, an acknowledgement of "chanoch la'na'ar al pi darko," a self-paced self-correcting method of teaching children. Therefore, Montessori is largely consistent with a Torah hashkafa. Theoretically, at least, it ought to be possible to integrate a secular and religious education under the aegis of a Montessori school, inasmuch as Montessori is an environment that is integrative in that it subsumes even secular subjects under a Torah-consistent educational model. Montessori also models the attitude of learning as its own reward, which is essentially a restatement of learning lishma.
I believe that all people learn things one at a time, and when learning a new concept, they reach a point where they "get it" and then move on to another lesson. Most subjects build upon previous material, so ensuring that someone "gets" a lesson before moving on to the next one is important. The trick is to get a student to a point where they are receptive to learning things, and usually that is because they have asked a question and are genuinely interested in finding out the answer.
The Pesach seder is an embodiment of what I have described above. As a matter of fact, embedded in the seder are the four sons, yet another restatement of "chanoch la'na'ar." Note that the first three sons are receptive to learning, because they have asked a question. The fourth, sh'aino yodaya lish'ol, who doesn't even know how to ask a question, needs us to start out for him. And I think that it's important the the "you" who needs to start out is phrased in the feminine, because it takes a certain, "motherly" mindset to get a child who hasn't started out asking question to ask that very first question on start out on a life of learning. (In other words, when you "kick someone in the pants" to get them started, you need to do so in a kind, loving manner.)
The four sons can also be viewed as four developmental stages in an educational process, starting at the bottom and working toward mastery of a particular subject.
One important aspect of the things that people learn is what I'll call "granularity." Take, for example, learning the times tables, which is a struggle for apparently a large number of children. Children either "get" that the multiplication facts never change, and decide to memorize them to save counting on fingers or what have you, or they don't. There is also the rote memorization of learning the times tables. Is the granularity the entire times table, a single row thereof, or a single cell (one fact)?
I think that granularity is important because one aspect of "chanoch la'na'ar" recognizes that not only do people learn at different paces - they also learn their fundamental factoids in different "bite sizes." Thus, one child may need to have the attitude of feeling satisfied with themselves only after having learned the entire times table, another may need some reinforcement after each row, and a third may need us to make a big deal as they learn each fact, one by one.
An associated question is whether there is a minimal level of granularity - for example, can you learn half a math fact? My tentative answer to the first question is "yes" and to the second is "no." I find support for this in the parshiyot that we read about the design and construction of the mishkan.
The mishkan was the ultimate do-it-yourself (DIY in Home Depot parlance) project. G-d gave Moshe a brief description of each component, and it was up to Bezalel and Oholiav to figure out the detailed construction plans and techniques based on a general overall plan. Each component of the mishkan was built of multiple materials and components, save one, and one alone.
The menorah was constructed from one gold ingot, and needed to be constructed in such a way that the ingot remained indivisible throughout the process. Additionally, according to the gemara, when G-d told Moshe about the menorah, Moshe was stumped, and G-d tried over and over again to tell Moshe (see Rashi on Shemot 25:40). Finally, G-d had to show Moshe what it looked like. The menorah seems to be emblematic of a minimal level of granularity in an educational process, and also an example of "at ptach lo," what to do when a student is at an impasse and seems to be non-receptive to learning.
As an aside, I note that the word used in Shemot 25:40, "tavnitam," (construction) has a root of B-N-H, which may be a cognate of the B-N-H used in the sense of understanding. Thus, construction and understanding might very well be synonmous.
Finally, I will note that when we "get" something, we often say that we have "seen the light," so it is more than coincidence that the menorah is emblematic of the start of an educartional process - a loving "kick in the pants," if you will, that everyone needs from time to time to start on the road to real understanding.
Theory is one thing; practice is another. I welcome your comments on kind and loving ways to get children of all ages started out on a life of learning.
My fiancee is an educator, and a strong believer in Montessori. On the face of it, Montessori appears to be inconsistent with Judaism, especially because Maria Montessori was a Catholic, and thus, many Jews associate Montessori with Christianity. As a believer in learning from all people, I think that attitude is narrow minded.
Montessori is, at its essence, an acknowledgement of "chanoch la'na'ar al pi darko," a self-paced self-correcting method of teaching children. Therefore, Montessori is largely consistent with a Torah hashkafa. Theoretically, at least, it ought to be possible to integrate a secular and religious education under the aegis of a Montessori school, inasmuch as Montessori is an environment that is integrative in that it subsumes even secular subjects under a Torah-consistent educational model. Montessori also models the attitude of learning as its own reward, which is essentially a restatement of learning lishma.
I believe that all people learn things one at a time, and when learning a new concept, they reach a point where they "get it" and then move on to another lesson. Most subjects build upon previous material, so ensuring that someone "gets" a lesson before moving on to the next one is important. The trick is to get a student to a point where they are receptive to learning things, and usually that is because they have asked a question and are genuinely interested in finding out the answer.
The Pesach seder is an embodiment of what I have described above. As a matter of fact, embedded in the seder are the four sons, yet another restatement of "chanoch la'na'ar." Note that the first three sons are receptive to learning, because they have asked a question. The fourth, sh'aino yodaya lish'ol, who doesn't even know how to ask a question, needs us to start out for him. And I think that it's important the the "you" who needs to start out is phrased in the feminine, because it takes a certain, "motherly" mindset to get a child who hasn't started out asking question to ask that very first question on start out on a life of learning. (In other words, when you "kick someone in the pants" to get them started, you need to do so in a kind, loving manner.)
The four sons can also be viewed as four developmental stages in an educational process, starting at the bottom and working toward mastery of a particular subject.
One important aspect of the things that people learn is what I'll call "granularity." Take, for example, learning the times tables, which is a struggle for apparently a large number of children. Children either "get" that the multiplication facts never change, and decide to memorize them to save counting on fingers or what have you, or they don't. There is also the rote memorization of learning the times tables. Is the granularity the entire times table, a single row thereof, or a single cell (one fact)?
I think that granularity is important because one aspect of "chanoch la'na'ar" recognizes that not only do people learn at different paces - they also learn their fundamental factoids in different "bite sizes." Thus, one child may need to have the attitude of feeling satisfied with themselves only after having learned the entire times table, another may need some reinforcement after each row, and a third may need us to make a big deal as they learn each fact, one by one.
An associated question is whether there is a minimal level of granularity - for example, can you learn half a math fact? My tentative answer to the first question is "yes" and to the second is "no." I find support for this in the parshiyot that we read about the design and construction of the mishkan.
The mishkan was the ultimate do-it-yourself (DIY in Home Depot parlance) project. G-d gave Moshe a brief description of each component, and it was up to Bezalel and Oholiav to figure out the detailed construction plans and techniques based on a general overall plan. Each component of the mishkan was built of multiple materials and components, save one, and one alone.
The menorah was constructed from one gold ingot, and needed to be constructed in such a way that the ingot remained indivisible throughout the process. Additionally, according to the gemara, when G-d told Moshe about the menorah, Moshe was stumped, and G-d tried over and over again to tell Moshe (see Rashi on Shemot 25:40). Finally, G-d had to show Moshe what it looked like. The menorah seems to be emblematic of a minimal level of granularity in an educational process, and also an example of "at ptach lo," what to do when a student is at an impasse and seems to be non-receptive to learning.
As an aside, I note that the word used in Shemot 25:40, "tavnitam," (construction) has a root of B-N-H, which may be a cognate of the B-N-H used in the sense of understanding. Thus, construction and understanding might very well be synonmous.
Finally, I will note that when we "get" something, we often say that we have "seen the light," so it is more than coincidence that the menorah is emblematic of the start of an educartional process - a loving "kick in the pants," if you will, that everyone needs from time to time to start on the road to real understanding.
Theory is one thing; practice is another. I welcome your comments on kind and loving ways to get children of all ages started out on a life of learning.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
The Jew and the Gentile
Early this month, I printed out an article in the YU Commentator with the above title to read, and then got sick for a few weeks (not from printing out the article.) I finally had an opportunity to read the article this past Shabbat. I have followed the whole Noah Feldman (NF) saga off an on, and want to share a few random thoughts that occured to me while I read the article to see what you think about them.
I think that while Rabbi Lamm (RL) might sound a bit shrill (he admits so himself), he does hit the nail on the head. At first glance, Gentile Professor (GP) has totally missed the point - that is, Judaism really is the original and best universalistic religion. GP is essentially denying the divinity of Judaism, and saying that now that we are enlightened, certain attitudes about "chosenness" or whatever have got to go. Following GP's argument in favor of equality and openness might lead one to a logical conclusion that a return to a hunter-gatherer society is a step in the right direction.
GP appears to have missed the fine distinction between equality and universality. The first term implies that everyone is the same, which we clearly are not. The second term implies that people are different, and each and every individual deserves the same respect (kavod habriyot) regardless of their religion, ethnicity, color of skin, or station in life. We all are not and never will be the same, and distinction is even useful from time to time. RL recognizes this, and GP apparently does not.
Leaving RL and GP aside, the whole NF saga, in my mind, begs a larger question: How have we, as families, communities, and Klal Yisrael, failed in our mission to educate our offspring in such a way that they propogate such a fundamental misunderstanding in such a spectacular way? Were I an administrator of the school that NF attended, I might very well cringe when NF made very public comments, because the comments themselves indicate a fundamental failure in NF's Jewish education, for which I might be partly responsible.
As a matter of fact, as a father, future step-father, and amateur educator, I already do cringe. I bear a tremendous responsibility to ensure that those in my charge understand Judaism's universalist message in a way that, whatever they do in life, they are secure in the knowledge that they are Jewish and that G-d loves them even when they stray by accident, and even if they intermarry, chas v'shalom. This knowledge is important because, eventually, they will need to find their way back.
This attitude also leads to a corollary attitude - all people make mistakes, and hurt others by accident - like leaving someone out of a photograph, for example. If those in my charge know that they make accidents from time to time, and that they can find their way back, they are also likely to treat others with the same forgiving attitude.
As far as NF, GP and RL, I leave the more philosophical fine points of the argument to them. For me, I have a job to do, and I know what it is. I welcome, as always, your comments, which might help me to do that job better. Please be kind to me and to others, especially NF and GP, and explain how one might harmonize them with RL.
I think that while Rabbi Lamm (RL) might sound a bit shrill (he admits so himself), he does hit the nail on the head. At first glance, Gentile Professor (GP) has totally missed the point - that is, Judaism really is the original and best universalistic religion. GP is essentially denying the divinity of Judaism, and saying that now that we are enlightened, certain attitudes about "chosenness" or whatever have got to go. Following GP's argument in favor of equality and openness might lead one to a logical conclusion that a return to a hunter-gatherer society is a step in the right direction.
GP appears to have missed the fine distinction between equality and universality. The first term implies that everyone is the same, which we clearly are not. The second term implies that people are different, and each and every individual deserves the same respect (kavod habriyot) regardless of their religion, ethnicity, color of skin, or station in life. We all are not and never will be the same, and distinction is even useful from time to time. RL recognizes this, and GP apparently does not.
Leaving RL and GP aside, the whole NF saga, in my mind, begs a larger question: How have we, as families, communities, and Klal Yisrael, failed in our mission to educate our offspring in such a way that they propogate such a fundamental misunderstanding in such a spectacular way? Were I an administrator of the school that NF attended, I might very well cringe when NF made very public comments, because the comments themselves indicate a fundamental failure in NF's Jewish education, for which I might be partly responsible.
As a matter of fact, as a father, future step-father, and amateur educator, I already do cringe. I bear a tremendous responsibility to ensure that those in my charge understand Judaism's universalist message in a way that, whatever they do in life, they are secure in the knowledge that they are Jewish and that G-d loves them even when they stray by accident, and even if they intermarry, chas v'shalom. This knowledge is important because, eventually, they will need to find their way back.
This attitude also leads to a corollary attitude - all people make mistakes, and hurt others by accident - like leaving someone out of a photograph, for example. If those in my charge know that they make accidents from time to time, and that they can find their way back, they are also likely to treat others with the same forgiving attitude.
As far as NF, GP and RL, I leave the more philosophical fine points of the argument to them. For me, I have a job to do, and I know what it is. I welcome, as always, your comments, which might help me to do that job better. Please be kind to me and to others, especially NF and GP, and explain how one might harmonize them with RL.
Lashon Hara and Rechilut Policy
I've been lurking on blogs for about a year now, and one thing I've noticed is the plethora of anonymous blogs and anonymous comments. I'm of two minds on anonymity.
On the one hand, I dislike anonymity because people tend to be less inhibited about inappropriate language and behavior because they mislead themselves into believing that no one is watching. Pirkei Avot teaches that G-d is always watching, so anonymity for that reason is a fallacy. Also, anonymity makes it harder to take someone seriously, since the Internet is sometimes a vast wasteland of information that might or might not be true. At least if there's a real person behind that information, one can assess the veracity of that information, possibly by calling or emailing the individual and confirming that they really said what they said.
On the other hand, anonymity can be useful at times. When discussing difficult issues, such as sexual abuse, anonymity allows people with an "inside" perspective on the issue to weigh in on a very emotional discussion with less risk of being "outed." It seems to me that for people who deal with these issues, they need a safe outlet to discuss them - test the waters, so to speak - and anonymity helps them to be more comfortable. Hopefully, over time, the safe outlet will enable them to talk to a therapist, a rabbi, or a close friend, and begin to heal what must be terrible pain.
Anonymity also serves to remove the tendency for people to dismiss arguments because of the "you would say that" rationale. This amounts to shooting the messenger because of the message, and is not a reasonable way to conduct a discussion. I myself have experienced this a number of times in my life, and wish to avoid it here. Nonetheless, I am posting under my real name, not under a pseudonym, and am mochel in advance anyone who feels the need to bash me because of my frankness and openness. (For this reason, I may or may not have another anonymous blog to which I may or may not post occasionally, and if I do, I most decidedly will not tell you what blog that might be.)
I am interested in what you have to say, as long as it is done seriously and respectfully. I value serious or humorous comments. I do not value drivel and will ignore it as much as possible. I am somewhat conversant with the laws of lashon hara and rechilut. I am not an expert on it. Experts might very well tell me not to run a blog because it amounts to putting a stumbling block before a blind person. They might also tell me not to attend shiurim, or lectures, for the same reason.
I am not the lashon hara police and have decided against moderating comments. In order to allow those people who feel they have a need for anonymity to post anonymously, and to have some form of accountability, I opted for the "Registered Users" option under comments. That seems to be a compromise between complete anonymity and total accountability. I hold people who come to this blog b'chezkat kashrut - in other words, I trust you. If you register and post under an assumed name, please make it clearly fake so we'll know you're anonymous for a reason. (And to be clear, I will put up follow-up posts, not comments, so any comments bearing my name are counterfeit.)
A few words about my policy on lashon hara. I am a human, just like you, and I am far from perfect. I speak lashon hara from time to time, just like you. I realize that when I speak lashon hara, far from telling the world what a jerk he or she is, I'm really telling the world what a jerk I am. Since I am not a jerk, I try to speak lashon hara as little as possible.
I have lived long enough and paid attention enough to really believe in G-d and hashgacha pratit (divine guidance.) With regards to lashon hara, as with other sins, "what goes around comes around," and when you hurt others, you really only hurt yourself. Please keep this in mind before engaging in any hostility or uncivil behavior on my blog. Before you it the post button, ask yourself whether the statement is still true when you substitute the word "I" for the word "you" or "him" or "her" in your post.
For example: You are about to post "You are such a jerk." Do you intend to post "I am such a jerk," because that's what, in effect, you are telling the whole world about yourself.
If that's what you intend to say, it's fine by me. However, remember that you are not allowed to speak lashon hara about yourself, either, and personally, I don't think I'd hit the post button on the example comment above for that reason.
Remember that for anonymous commenters and commenters who choose to post under a pseudonym or even someone else's name, I may not know who you are, but for sure G-d does. As an aside, I am a professional "hacker," so I might know who you are, too. However, I have better things to do with my time than to investigate morons who have no yirat shamayim (fear of G-d) or who don't believe in G-d and consequently, have no self-respect.
This is your blog as much as it is mine. Please don't litter, and when you do by accident, clean up after yourself.
I reserve the right to update this policy from time to time as I "learn the ropes."
On the one hand, I dislike anonymity because people tend to be less inhibited about inappropriate language and behavior because they mislead themselves into believing that no one is watching. Pirkei Avot teaches that G-d is always watching, so anonymity for that reason is a fallacy. Also, anonymity makes it harder to take someone seriously, since the Internet is sometimes a vast wasteland of information that might or might not be true. At least if there's a real person behind that information, one can assess the veracity of that information, possibly by calling or emailing the individual and confirming that they really said what they said.
On the other hand, anonymity can be useful at times. When discussing difficult issues, such as sexual abuse, anonymity allows people with an "inside" perspective on the issue to weigh in on a very emotional discussion with less risk of being "outed." It seems to me that for people who deal with these issues, they need a safe outlet to discuss them - test the waters, so to speak - and anonymity helps them to be more comfortable. Hopefully, over time, the safe outlet will enable them to talk to a therapist, a rabbi, or a close friend, and begin to heal what must be terrible pain.
Anonymity also serves to remove the tendency for people to dismiss arguments because of the "you would say that" rationale. This amounts to shooting the messenger because of the message, and is not a reasonable way to conduct a discussion. I myself have experienced this a number of times in my life, and wish to avoid it here. Nonetheless, I am posting under my real name, not under a pseudonym, and am mochel in advance anyone who feels the need to bash me because of my frankness and openness. (For this reason, I may or may not have another anonymous blog to which I may or may not post occasionally, and if I do, I most decidedly will not tell you what blog that might be.)
I am interested in what you have to say, as long as it is done seriously and respectfully. I value serious or humorous comments. I do not value drivel and will ignore it as much as possible. I am somewhat conversant with the laws of lashon hara and rechilut. I am not an expert on it. Experts might very well tell me not to run a blog because it amounts to putting a stumbling block before a blind person. They might also tell me not to attend shiurim, or lectures, for the same reason.
I am not the lashon hara police and have decided against moderating comments. In order to allow those people who feel they have a need for anonymity to post anonymously, and to have some form of accountability, I opted for the "Registered Users" option under comments. That seems to be a compromise between complete anonymity and total accountability. I hold people who come to this blog b'chezkat kashrut - in other words, I trust you. If you register and post under an assumed name, please make it clearly fake so we'll know you're anonymous for a reason. (And to be clear, I will put up follow-up posts, not comments, so any comments bearing my name are counterfeit.)
A few words about my policy on lashon hara. I am a human, just like you, and I am far from perfect. I speak lashon hara from time to time, just like you. I realize that when I speak lashon hara, far from telling the world what a jerk he or she is, I'm really telling the world what a jerk I am. Since I am not a jerk, I try to speak lashon hara as little as possible.
I have lived long enough and paid attention enough to really believe in G-d and hashgacha pratit (divine guidance.) With regards to lashon hara, as with other sins, "what goes around comes around," and when you hurt others, you really only hurt yourself. Please keep this in mind before engaging in any hostility or uncivil behavior on my blog. Before you it the post button, ask yourself whether the statement is still true when you substitute the word "I" for the word "you" or "him" or "her" in your post.
For example: You are about to post "You are such a jerk." Do you intend to post "I am such a jerk," because that's what, in effect, you are telling the whole world about yourself.
If that's what you intend to say, it's fine by me. However, remember that you are not allowed to speak lashon hara about yourself, either, and personally, I don't think I'd hit the post button on the example comment above for that reason.
Remember that for anonymous commenters and commenters who choose to post under a pseudonym or even someone else's name, I may not know who you are, but for sure G-d does. As an aside, I am a professional "hacker," so I might know who you are, too. However, I have better things to do with my time than to investigate morons who have no yirat shamayim (fear of G-d) or who don't believe in G-d and consequently, have no self-respect.
This is your blog as much as it is mine. Please don't litter, and when you do by accident, clean up after yourself.
I reserve the right to update this policy from time to time as I "learn the ropes."
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